Relationships in boarding don’t tend to last, if it does then it not a real relationship. Yh, your probably thinking that what do sec school kids know about relationships but in my school its hip (cool) to be in a relationship. Nobody actually said it’s the thing to do if you’re cool however it’s like in the unwritten code of conduct for relationships to come forth and you kind of just accept it. Don’t get me wrong Nothing happens to people who are not in relationships and you don’t get forced to go out with anyone but you know na when your senior approaches you and your classmates begin to get jealous of you and you get out of punishments or get extra refreshments. You start to find it hard to say no. Anyways this relationship stuff is wide in my school and I will gist you all later na. There’s plenty and anytime I don’t have anything to write about I’ll update ya on this relationship ish.
Anyways...moving on for whats been going on in my life. There is this couple that I know. I met the guy first and even though he was with the chick he decided to try his ‘charms’ with me but I simply wasn’t interested so we remained friends. I then met the chick and at first my girl tried to do shakara for me because she thought I liked the Guy. So we ended up being close all three of us but as you kno na three is a crowd so I normally left them to it but sometimes we wud chill 2geda. I am older than the chik and I turned to adviser and fight finisher for the two of them. Kinda like the mogbo mo branch of their relationship na. These guys have been going out for over 2 years now and the guy normally jokes about my ass but everyone (both boys and girls) does on a normal day so Man no go vex. Am kinda used to the jokes anyhow.
So.....Me and dis guy got closer still and he still used to joke that he liked me but to I fashi-ed the guy when he took our conversation to that side. When I went home on holiday obviously we still continued talking (no midnight calls) and bbming and he constantly sent me credit so hols was going good na until popsy died and as soon as I told him he increased my number of calls per day just to see how i am and all that stuff. His chick didn’t even call and when I called the girl she didn’t even pick up my calls. Are you getting the vibe yet that my girl is beefing me? If not! Keep reading
Also during the hols, boy breaks up with girl because he found out that she was cheating. Yh well shit happens. School is back in session and guy and girl are back together because according to the guy she begged him and he wanted to dump her publicly in school anyhow. I begged this guy not to humiliate my friend so he dumped her privately. My chik beefed me because he broke up with her. I didn’t tell him to break with you o...I just said he should not humiliate you. Ah see me see wahala. She ended up not speaking to me and she shared the news that I stole her boyfriend. Chai!! If looks could kill then I would be more 6 feet into the ground because all her friends were helping her curse me. On top man! Wetin una dey find with boyfriend sed! Ahhh!
Anyhow sha me being me I confronted her oo and told her dat i can’t, won’t and will never go out with the guy so she has nothing to fear. So she calmed down small. Next thing they started going out again. See DYSFUNCTIONAL relationship!!!! Anyhow the guy’s friend dared him to go out with one other chick like this and the guy did to show that he is a badt guy. I sha found out and I told the guy to stop. Later I heard the girl found out and she broke up with the guy. See pot calling kettle black. CHai!!!! Next thing I heard was that she found out about the picture and she didn’t like the way me and the guy still were (which part of I can’t go out with him does she not understand?) being together! Now she is giving me the silent treatment and her eveils looks have started again. FOOLISH GIRL! She is kinda young though! Relationship drama at the age of 14! No be me! I cant come and kill myself on top one boy and how many times do I have to tell the stupid girl that I have nothing to do with the guy and its not like that and won’t ever be like that. I honestly can stop talking to the boy but I don’t want to. He is my friend and has been there for me so I should leave him alone. Ok even if i leave him alone, will the ashewo that he is leave me alone? Hmmm THINK ON THAT!
